Unnerving...

I told CH what I have discussed with Da the day before and she was very upset about it..."He should not be doing this", she was looking so pissed and went on "what is he doing making friends with someone who doesn't even like you?"..."its a matter of loyalty here" CH went on and on...She is speaking what I am thinking!!! I can not imagine even though I have silently....

Actually Da had secretly went out with a girl friend without telling me...they went tracking...TRACKING!!!! Tracking at the area near mount Faber...That's the place that our running gang had once went to jog around..."Should ask Da to come here one day" I was actually thinking of that...And he went with somebody else!! Sigh... Worst thing...when I asked him... "So you are going with your colleagues to go tracking?"... He never replied me...So I assumed that he is going for some "cohesive team building event"...Turned out that it was otherwise...

He is planning to go cycling on sunday...with the same person again...so I asked him the day before whether I can join in and he had said that I can join cos GD might not be comfortable to do that...

That was what started CH from getting angry...hee...She seems more angry then I am...or rather she is helping me get angry...

In the first place GD is my friend as well, we have gotten to know her through a friend's birthday party...and since then we have been keeping in contact...I even shared with her my business venture on Nuskin...Actually according to Da...GD does not like me cos she found that I was very pushy when sharing on Nuskin...I thought I treated her like a friend...So why can't I join them?

Anyway...CH thought that being WIFE...you are equal in your relationship...in this case...WIFE come first instead of what your friend wants right? I agree with that...exactly my thoughts...

I like the idea of guys and girls can be friends whether they are married or not...Best of friends even...That was the reason why I never discourage Da from making girl friends or even controlled him...

hmmm....Anyway I decided to interfere this time...So I told him that either I go with them or he don't go for cycling... OMG!! How can I do that?? I have never butt in like that before...But cos I am wife I guess I should be able to do that...I am not trying to be controlling...Everything will have to have a first time I guess...